The Other Woman

October 14th, 2006 Viewed 385 views

I have a short story here emailed to me by my friend. Wala lang na touched lang ako at naisip kong i-share din sa inyo. May mga weird kasi akong naiisip nitong mga nakaraang araw. Para bang feeling ko malapit na akong mamatay. Nong isang gabi kasi nagsimula manakit ang bewang ko pababa simula dun sa pinagturukan ng anesthesia nong na nanganak ako, CS kasi ako. Promise masakit sya. Pagbangon ko bigla nalang akong hindi makalad tapos nong pinilit ko ayun sumakit na kala mo pinagpapalo ako dos por dos hanggang ngayon masakit parin sya. nakwento ko na ito kay luvski at sabi nya magpatingin ako sa doctor. takot ako sa doctor eh :106: pero pag hindi parin mawala ang pananakit ko eh papatingin na cguro ako :yikes:

Nong nabasa ko yung story sa baba naisip ko hindi nga natin alam kung hanggang kelan tayo dito sa mundo malay mo bukas mamatay na tayo. Hindi ako takot mamatay pero parang hindi pa ako handang mamatay marami pa akong gustong gawin sa buhay ko at marami pa akong gustong tulungan… Yung nararamdaman ko ay hindi ganun ka konektado sa nabasa ko sa baba. Naisip ko lang dapat pala ngayon palang iparamdam ko na sa mga taong malapit sakin na mahal ko sila bago man Ako o Sila mawala dito sa mundo lalong lalo na sa mga magulang ko. Hindi ko kasi masasabi na isa akong mabuting anak :dreaming:

Have a nice weekend everyone :kiss:

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THE OTHER WOMAN

After 21 years of marriage, I discovered a new way of keeping alive the spark of love. A little while ago I had started to go out with another woman. It was really my wife’s idea. “I know that you love her,” she said one day, taking me by surprise. “But I love YOU,” I protested. “I know, but you also love her.” The other woman that my wife wanted me to visit was my mother, who has been a widow for 19 years, but the demands of my work and my three children had made it possible to visit her only occasionally. That night I called to invite her to go out for dinner and movie.

“What’s wrong, are you well?” she asked. My mother is the type of woman who suspects that a late night call or a surprise invitation is a sign of bad news. “I thought that it would be pleasant to pass some time with you,” I responded. “Just the two of us.” She thought about it for a moment then said, ” I would like that very much.”

That Friday after work, as I drove over to pick her up I was a bit nervous. When I arrived at her house, I noticed that she, too, seemed to be nervous about our date. She waited in the door with her coat on. She had curled her hair and was wearing the dress that she had worn to
celebrate her last wedding anniversary. She smiled from a face that was as radiant as an angel’s.
“I told my friends that I was going to go out with my son, and they were impressed,” she said, as she got into the car. “They can’t wait to hear about our meeting”.

We went to a restaurant that, although not elegant, was very nice and cozy. My mother took my arm as if she were the First Lady. After we sat down, I had to read the menu. Her eyes could only read large print. Half way through the entree, I lifted my eyes and saw Mom sitting there staring at me. A nostalgic smile was on her lips. “It was I who used to have to read the menu when you were small,” she said. “Then it’s time that you relax and let me return the favor,” I
responded.

During the dinner we had an agreeable conversation — nothing extraordinary — but catching up on recent events of each other’s life. We talked so much that we missed the movie. As we arrived at her house later, she said “I’ll go out with you again, but only if you let me invite you.”
I agreed.

“How was your dinner date?” asked my wife when I got home. “Very nice. Much more so than I could have imagined,” I answered.

A few days later my mother died of a massive heart attack. It happened so suddenly that I didn’t have a chance to do anything for her. Some time later I received an envelope with a copy of a restaurant receipt from the same place mother and I had dined. An attached note said:
“I paid this bill in advance. I was almost sure that I couldn’t be there but, never-the-less, I paid for two plates — one for you and the other for you wife. You will never know what that night meant for me. I love you.”

At that moment I understood the importance of saying, in time: “I LOVE YOU” and to give our loved ones the time that they deserve. Nothing in life is more important than God and your family. Give them the time they deserve, because these things cannot be put off to “some other time”



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By: Dre on Oct-14-06 at 8:41 pm
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I do believe that saying I love you all the time is really good, coz u never know when you’ll say it the last time…

By: hanmae on Oct-14-06 at 9:38 pm
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^^yep yep agree.

kudos to someone i know for that.:luvstruck: lmao.

take care ate scarty. miss you.
thanks sa pagshare.

By: Anneke on Oct-14-06 at 10:25 am
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Waaah! Nakakaiyak naman yan! Pero totoo kasi nga hindi naman natin hawak ng buhay natin dito sa mundo….

Anyway, musta ka na? Long time no talk tayo ah! Hehe. Hope everything is well. Ingat!

By: lin on Oct-14-06 at 11:20 am
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scart! Grabe! parang connected yata ang isip natin ha? That’s weird kasi alam mo I was also thinkin about a lot of things. Kaya kailangan kong mag-break muna sa blogging. Alam mo, napakahirap talaga dahil napakahiwaga nang life nang tao. dapat talaga while kasama pa natin ang parents natin sa mundo ay palagi nating sasabihin at ipapakita kung gaano natin sila kamahal. Let’s say ganito na lang, yung post ko na private na bago. Takot akong mawala yung mahahalagang tao sa buhay ko. Dahil hindi ko pa kaya, kagaya mo din di ba? Ingats have a great weekend!

By: kitty on Oct-14-06 at 11:48 am
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aww.. natouch naman ako sa story na yan. ikaw naman bakit naman ganyan ang nararamdaman mo? pareho tayo since CS rin ako eh talagang minsan sumusumpong ang aking spinal cord dahil sa epidural na sinaksak sakin. I so regret that moment.. sigh.. anyways, yeah you’re right habang maaga pa eh iparamdam na natin sa mga mahal natin sa buhay na mahal na mahal natin sila inspite of all the things that happened, yung mga trials sa buhay and all. hayy, ako ren, siguro I’m not scared of death, pero at the same time I am SCARED.. kasi nga dami ko pang gustong gawin sa buhay, I want to see my children all grown up and have kids on their own, I want to spend all the rest of my life with my loved ones.. :sad: anyways, pray na lang tayo.. patingin ka na rin to be sure ok? ingats, ate mwahhh

ps. uy ha pictures naman ni Yuna dyan o, na naka costume sya he hee kisses to her :luvstruck:

By: Grace on Oct-14-06 at 2:47 pm
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omgggg, sobrang na touch ako, naiyak pa ako.. grabe, ako takot talaga ako mawalan ng mahal sa buhay, ayaw ko nang ganun, nako, magpapakaibait na nga ako,

By: janelle on Oct-14-06 at 8:16 pm
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naiyak naman po ako dun sa kwento :cry:

galing mo po :bow:

By: tiff k on Oct-14-06 at 9:40 pm
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Ate Scart!! I missed ya much ate! Am so sorry kung ngayon lang po ako nag-appear uli! And man what a story! Tama nga ate, we don’t know how long we’ll be here and we gotta say or more importantly show our love to our loved ones while we’re all here pa. Ate I’ll pray that you get well ah. I experienced almost dying pa rin pro thank the Lord nandito pa me. Am sure na oki lang yan ate, will pray for ya ah! TC and god bless ate! =) :hug:

By: skulgirltrx on Oct-14-06 at 12:30 am
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hello!:oops:

what the story tries to convey is so true! i’ve been a witness having lost a son (3 mnth old) and a bestfriend all in just one year! :sad:
so kelangan talaga natin i-nurture yung present relationships natin with our family or kahit sa mga friends ‘coz life is short. we’ll never really know if this could be our last day on earth, so live and give the best that you can as if this is your last!:hug:

By: mei on Oct-14-06 at 11:00 am
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awww.. touching story! it’s true sometimes we never realize the value of peopl around us until it’s too late… kakalungkot no?

do go to the doctor for check up for your own peace of mind and your hubby’s na rin. mahirap maging mami pag di ka makakilos ng maayos (as if i know!) haha. take care scart :)

By: ralphT on Oct-14-06 at 2:02 pm
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aaaaawww……

By: Talamasca on Oct-14-06 at 3:55 pm
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Scart. My gawd. Would you believe that I’ve been thinking of what you’ve been thinking as well? That one of these days, Death would come knocking at my door and send me to hell? In other words, yeah, I also have this morbid feeling that I’m going to die soon. But the thing is, I DON’T WANNA DIE! So I pretty much repress the thought of anything death related.

Anyway, just enjoy life… while it lasts. Hehehe. :pan: